My grandmother on my mother's side lived with us from the time I was 8 or 9 until a few months before she died at age 90. For background info, my mother was an only child, and after Granddaddy died, Granny would stay with us on and off for a few weeks at the time. She lived in the country and didn't drive, so we worried about her being there by herself. After my daddy died, it just kind of became permanent. There was no big discussion or decision about her staying with us, it just happened.
One day a friend came home with me, and saw Granny in the kitchen. My friend asked, "Is that your dad's mom?" I replied, "No," without any further explanation, figuring that my friend would figure it out. But instead, her next question was, "Well is she the MAID?" So that kind of became a joke to Granny, and she'd even say from time to time, "I''m just the maid around here." Well, now I think Granny was right! Do you ever feel like you're "just the maid"????
You see, this is how I'm spending my Memorial Day...

However, not to overdo the martyr role, I must admit that the weather here is too yucky to do anything else. We've had 5 inches of rain in the past three days. It's already rained this morning, and although the sun is trying to shine at the moment, I see more storm clouds in the sky.
I had hoped to spend some time
here today...

I'm learning from Darby about value of transparency. So judge me however you want, but I must put in my two cents worth about these pools that have been popping up everywhere over the last few years. At first, I thought, "There's no way I'd have one of those in my yard. That's tacky!" Then I became a mom and for the sake of my child having some summer fun, I gave in and gave my "blessing" for us to get one. Well, I am converted now! These pools are great! A whole lot of fun for a little bit of money. We just don't have an extra $20,000 laying around to spend on an in-ground pool right now! :-) Plus, since they aren't that deep, I feel much more comfortable with Matthew getting in, since he doesn't yet know how to swim. (He's taking swimming lessons this summer though.) Anyway, if you just like to splash around and cool off and aren't really into swimming laps or anything, these are a whole lot of bang for the buck! Don't knock it 'til you've tried it!
And finally, I swapped the Vera Bradley laptop bag I got for Mother's Day for this one, and I'm so much happier with this pattern! (It's called Cafe Latte if you're wondering.)

Happy Memorial Day!